Many urban policies now focus on attracting talented citizens. But they often focus on appealing to those in their twenties — people often without children who spend time at night clubs, cafes, restaurants. However, a successful city will find a way to embrace those 20-somethings as their lifestyles change — and to attract more experienced people who are at different stages in their lives.
Here’s how things have changed for me, as an example.
One key reason I moved back to Vancouver after grad school in the US was for the international feel and focus of the city. I also missed being able to travel by transit and foot to my favorite destinations. This seems like a more human pace to me than driving in my own car.
As I settled down more (got a little older), my routine involved walking and taking the skytrain downtown to work, cycling to destinations occasionally on weekends. Restaurants, grocery stores, specialty stores and cafes were (are) all easy walks from home. I rarely drove my old Honda Civic Hatchback — a tank of gasoline would last a couple months.
My ecological footprint was quite modest.
When I had a baby, some of that changed. First, we sold the Civic and invested in a mini-van, which doesn’t exactly “sip ” gasoline (but otherwise is quite a practical vehicle). Second, when I returned to work, the only daycare I could find was in a distant neighbourhood. This meant driving to work so that I could pick my son up afterwards (my husband did the drop off). Third, even when a subsequent child care option opened near our home, I continued to drive to work. Driving takes 10 minutes versus 30-35 by walking and transit. Although parking costs $10/day, and I missed the more relaxed pace of a walk and 10 minute metro ride, driving offered me 40-45 very valuable minutes in my long, flex-working hours day that started at 6:30 AM and ended at 11 PM.
Even now with two kids, we have no intention of moving to the suburbs; we enjoy the community-focused and walkable neighbourhood in which we live. When we do have a babysitter, it’s nice to be able to hit a great restaurant or pub only a few blocks from home (if the baby needs me, I can easily walk home). And, there are so many young families (as well as empty nesters, childless couples of all ages, and others) that it’s easy to connect with others with whom we have lots in common (our tribe). We all visit the cafes, parks and playgrounds.
Lessons: If we can generalize from my experience, here are some thoughts:
1. Great neighborhoods tend to keep people at all stages of their lives. Walkability along with amenities for people of all ages from birth to retirement are important.
2. Family ecological footprints would be lower if cities did more to encourage (rather than discourage) a variety of quality child care options in all neighbourhoods.
3. More frequent bus service to downtown or to the nearest metro station combined with neighborhood childcare would allow more people to take transit.
There are probably a few more…

